Confidence & feelings
Dish-washing helper
- Builds: Doing a real chore
- 15 min
- Ages 2–5
- Calm
- Messy
From the house
- A sturdy step stool
- Plastic cups, bowls and spoons
- A sponge
- A little dish soap
- A towel
How to play
- They stand on the stool at the sink with a few inches of warm, soapy water.
- They wash the plastic dishes with the sponge.
- Rinse them and stack them on a towel to dry.
- Thank them for helping: they’ll feel very grown-up.
Fit it to your child
- Easier: Set a bowl of water on a towel on the floor instead, with one cup and a sponge.
- Harder: They wash forks, spoons and unbreakable plates too, then dry them and put them away.
Words to use
- wash
- rinse
- wet
- dry
- clean
Why it helps
Doing a real job the grown-ups do tells them they’re trusted and capable, and warm water is calming at the end of the day.
Grown-up eyes: Stay within arm’s reach on the stool, check the water is just warm, and keep knives and glass out of the sink.