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Confidence & feelings

Dish-washing helper

  • Builds: Doing a real chore
  • 15 min
  • Ages 2–5
  • Calm
  • Messy

From the house

  • A sturdy step stool
  • Plastic cups, bowls and spoons
  • A sponge
  • A little dish soap
  • A towel

How to play

  1. They stand on the stool at the sink with a few inches of warm, soapy water.
  2. They wash the plastic dishes with the sponge.
  3. Rinse them and stack them on a towel to dry.
  4. Thank them for helping: they’ll feel very grown-up.

Fit it to your child

  • Easier: Set a bowl of water on a towel on the floor instead, with one cup and a sponge.
  • Harder: They wash forks, spoons and unbreakable plates too, then dry them and put them away.

Words to use

  • wash
  • rinse
  • wet
  • dry
  • clean

Why it helps

Doing a real job the grown-ups do tells them they’re trusted and capable, and warm water is calming at the end of the day.

Grown-up eyes: Stay within arm’s reach on the stool, check the water is just warm, and keep knives and glass out of the sink.

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